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The Old-Fashioned Dating Methods Can Work Today

The Old-Fashioned Dating Methods Can Work Today

Modern forms of dating, online dating, dating apps, group meet-ups, and speed dating, have become for many, the preferred way of dating over old-fashioned dating. Getting to know someone takes time...that we can all agree. The old-fashioned dating approach to dating...

Not Ready to Date Again Just Yet? We Look at 7 Signs

Not Ready to Date Again Just Yet? We Look at 7 Signs

So are you, or are you not ready to start dating again? You may be keen to start dating soon after a break-up, but how soon is too soon? When is the right time to start dating again? The answer is that there’s no specific timing. There is no formula for everyone to...

10 Essential Dating Tips To Create Healthy Relationships

10 Essential Dating Tips To Create Healthy Relationships

Dating plays a vital role in creating long-term relationships. After all, dating is a great opportunity to get to know someone new and see if you're a good fit together. Before you start dating, consider if you are ready for a relationship. Just because you want a...

7 Ways to Build Trust in a Relationship

7 Ways to Build Trust in a Relationship

You’ve probably heard that trust is the foundation for strong relationships. Without it, relationships won’t grow or progress and will eventually fail. And you probably know that trusting your partner is the most important part of your relationship. But what happens...

The Importance of Trust in a Relationship

The Importance of Trust in a Relationship

Do you ever get a feeling that something isn't right in your relationship? You may not know why, but more than likely, it’s because you are lacking trust in your relationship. You may not have trust in your partner if… You feel like you can’t let your guard down in...

The Ambivalent

The Ambivalent

When it comes to addictive relationships, the most common types of people are; those who love too much (Anxious), and those who love too little, (the Avoidant). If you vacillate between the two you are an Ambivalent. It’s not really “love” that we are talking about....

Love Isn’t Addictive… Here’s Why

Love Isn’t Addictive… Here’s Why

Do you mistake intensity for intimacy? Do you have to be in relationship to avoid feeling empty? Do you know you need help navigating relationships and not sure about what help to get? Do you feel like you are working harder in the relationship than your partner? Is...

Article: Deboarding Crazy Train

Article: Deboarding Crazy Train

On her blog, Lori Jean Glass talks about: Deboarding the Crazy Train. The article gives insight about what it takes to find relational freedom and be able to operate in life as your healthiest self.

Withdrawal From Love

Withdrawal From Love

If you’ve been in love before, you probably know the feeling of being on a “high.” However, if your partner left you, then you may experience extreme “lows,” which are physically painful. This is withdrawal from love. The reason for this is that when you fall in love...

The Whole Perspective

The Whole Perspective

The Whole Perspective is part of the core curriculum at PIVOT. This is where we invite you to show up for your whole self and live the change that you seek. The benefits of the Whole Perspective are: Identify what areas in your life need attention. Gain self-esteem...

Dating with a Purpose

Dating with a Purpose

Learn how to have good discernment and identify healthy, lasting relationships. Date with a Purpose! Get a PIVOT advocate today! Do you wonder why your friends have found “the one” but you’re still trawling dating websites and apps, wondering whether to go on a date…...