For Couples, Duos, and Families

Let us guide you through our life-affirming PIVOT process to create a coupleship, friendship, or family system that speaks to your individual and collective wants and needs. The results are truly transformational!

  • Are you tired of talking and getting nowhere?
  • Do you need things to be different in your relationship?
  • Are you interested in creating intimacy instead of intensity?
  • Are you looking to repair a broken relationship due to infidelity, secretive behavior, addiction, and/or life circumstances that have broken apart your coupleship and/or family?
  • Are you ready for a process that has helped thousands of people have healthier relationships and live better lives?

For Couples:

So many couples tell us that they don’t feel seen, heard, or understood in their marriage or long-term partnership. Even after going to couple’s therapy, reading books on relationships, and fighting to get their partner to understand their side of things, the couples we meet are still lonely and hurt in their primary relationship. What they hoped would be a “happily ever after” pairing, has turned into a challenging environment inside their own home. As a result, one or both partners has checked out of the relationship while the other might be lobbing verbal and emotional grenades just to get their attention. What was supposed to be a happy ending is now a relationship filled with pain and devastation for both partners.

The Pivot intensive process for couples can help.

Until each person in the relationship understands their own survival patterns within the relationship and how their own storyline has been affecting them they are unable to clearly see their partner’s wants and needs. When we can’t clearly see ourselves and how we impact others AND when we cannot effectively change our own patterns, chaos and pain are not far behind.

When you enlist in Pivot couple’s coaching or intensives you can expect to:

  • Better understand yourself and your contribution to the relationship struggles you’re facing
  • See and understand your partner’s challenges in a new light (and have your partner do this too)
  • Learn new ways to interrupt your old relationship patterns while you chart a course towards a healthier marriage
  • Make a plan for resolving longstanding hurts and misunderstandings between you
  • Begin to trust again
  • Leave a better legacy for your children

We help couples create a change process that lasts. Most people seeking help due to marital challenges express the following sentiments after discovering the magic of PIVOT:

“I wish I would have known this before we got married. Understanding each other would have saved us so much heartache in our relationship.”

“I have missed out on loving my partner’s parts of self. I have been fighting the wrong fight. No wonder he wasn’t coming to me and connecting on a deep level anymore. I never knew he was so sensitive deep down. My heart is now open.”

“I can now understand why my wife is so sensitive and emotional at times. I knew she struggled growing up however I never saw the depth of it. This would have been so helpful to learn a long time ago instead of shaming her for feeling emotional.”

For Duos:

Perhaps you are having relational challenges with a sibling, adult child, parent, or business partner, you may be experiencing:

  • Turbulent relationship problems with your adult child
  • An overly involved parent who does not respect your boundaries
  • A business partner who is at odds with you
  • A family member with whom you’d like to be closer
  • An ex with whom you share children

Some people stay unhappy and resentful of key players in their lives. This doesn’t have to be you. This process will help get you unstuck from the relational gridlock you find yourself in. A Pivot for Duos can be a life-changing experience for those who want to be closer or who have to work together towards a common goal.

Those who have gone through the Pivot process with another person often tell us this:

“My mom and I had such a tense and difficult relationship; it wasn’t until we got to the bottom of it with a Pivot coach that we could finally enjoy one another and not fight.”

“My partner and I decided to divorce but we still had to raise our kids. After learning about the Healthy Adult process from Pivot it was so much easier to figure out what to do as parents and we didn’t have to live as enemies.”

“I asked my sister to “Pivot” with me. We spent a day at the Glass House finally seeing each other for who we both really were and not who we expected the other to be. It was a game-changer for us.”

We also have pre and post-marital “I Do” Personalized PIVOTS! Preparing for that special day is not nearly as important as preparing for a lifetime with your special person. Also, if you are already partnered and looking to ignite the spark that initially connected you, this is a great option to deepen intimacy and rekindle your passion. Why not come to embrace learning more about your partner’s wants and needs in your relationship? Discover how to be a dynamic team and create your own unique ways to deepen intimacy and resolve conflict! Identify the values you want to embody as a couple that will guide your future!

Those who have experienced the magic of a One Day Pivot for Two tell us:

“I wish I would have known this before we got married. Understanding each other would have saved us so much heartache in our relationship.”

“I have missed out on loving my partner’s parts of self. I have been ignoring the essence of his inner child and have been fighting the wrong fight. No wonder he wasn’t coming to me and connecting on a deep level anymore. I never knew he was so sensitive deep down. My heart is now open.”

“I can now understand why my wife is so sensitive and emotional at times. I knew she struggled growing up however I never saw the depth of it. This would have been so helpful to learn a long time ago instead of shaming her for feeling emotional.”

For Families:

Let us help you heal your family by attending a Personalized PIVOT for Families with our team at the Glass House. We have watched as generational trauma is healed in family systems as a result of a family PIVOT at the Glass House. Relationships are restored, family members are reunited, rifts resolved, and a path forward is revealed.

When families are confronted with misunderstandings, addictions, grudges, blended families, and more, it can be one single event that sets off a systemic negative pattern that can fracture entire families. This takes precious time away from loving one another and enjoying healthy connections. Family matters. Having a safe place to ensure that everyone is seen and heard that offers high-impact solutions quickly shifts family dynamics. There’s no more time to waste!

Each family member gets their own coach to guide them through the process to support their process individually and collectively as a family unit.

Benefits of PIVOT Coaching for Couples and Families

  • Determine current challenges in your relationship and create individualized solutions to specifically address what is happening
  • Repair and restore broken relationships due to poor choices and/or life circumstances
  • Learn how to appreciate and value your partner and close family members. Discover and understand relational attachment styles
  • Co-create a personalized relational language that is true and realistic
  • Expand and deepen intimacy in order to build lasting bonds and deep connections create an action plan for you and your partner or family
  • Dissipate longstanding hurt and resentments while you learn to successfully resolve conflicts that may arise in the future
  • Reignite the spark!

Menu of Services for Couples (Duos) and Families

1. “PIVOT for Two” Personalized Pivot Weekend at The Glass House

Our premiere Duo option. The all-inclusive weekend includes two coaches (one for each participant) accommodations, breakfast, lunch, and snacks. This package has four follow-up coaching sessions with both coaches.

2. “PIVOT for Two” One Day Personalized Pivot

Includes two coaches (one coach for each participant) for a day-long coaching intensive to help heal and restore the relationship you’re struggling with. This can be planned at your house or at the Glass House in Northern, CA.

Note: This option works great for couples who have both already begun their Pivot work. Pre-coaching may be suggested as a way to enhance the effectiveness of your time with us.

3. “PIVOT for Two” Twelve Week Online Relationship Coaching

Includes two coaches – one coach for each participant, 26 sessions total (eight of those are duo sessions)

4. “PIVOT for Two” Six Week Relationship Online Coaching

Includes two coaches – one for each participant, 14 sessions total (4 of those are duo sessions)

5. “I Do” Premarital or Postmarital PIVOT – great gift for new couples!

Let’s set you up for success by attending a PIVOT Pre/Postmarital retreat at the Glass House. Learn the PIVOT process and get ready for soul-deep emotional intimacy with the love of your life. Includes Two Coaches – one for each participant and can be one or two days.

6. Family Personalized PIVOT

Let us bring healing to your whole family. For one day or over a weekend our team can work with your entire family (in your home or in ours) to help you heal and grow. Sometimes the pain of an entire family needs more support. After the death of a loved one, a divorce, or other life challenges, all hands are needed on deck to help the whole family get back on track. We’re here for you. After speaking to you we will offer you a customized quote for your family care.

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