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Vital Aspects to Consider Before Separating

To some people, separation may sound like a perfect solution when you feel stuck and don't know what to do about your relationship. It could be an opportunity to take some time off and get a new perspective on things....

Temptation In Relationships: Why It Happens & How To Resist It

Adultery, cheating, having a wandering eye… Whatever you may call it, many people consider it a deal breaker in a committed monogamous relationship. Monogamy is all about focusing your romantic feelings on one person, and infidelity can irrevocably endanger this...

Love Withdrawal is a Painful and Destabilizing Experience

Love withdrawal is the emotional, physical, and nervous-system response that occurs when a romantic relationship ends, particularly when childhood abandonment or attachment wounds are also present. At PIVOT, we call the peak of this experience an Attachment Storm. If you’ve...

Enabling vs. Empowering: What Is the Difference?

One of the most beautiful, most commendable traits we humans, as a species, possess is our innate desire to assist and support others. Whether it’s a friend, a family member, or a colleague, an astounding number of us will find...

5 Ways To Break Enabling Behavior In A Relationship

Taking on different roles is an integral part of human nature. We do it in every aspect of our lives, whether it be professional or personal. Relationships are no exception to this “rule” either, as individuals forming a deeper connection...

9 Characteristics of Toxic Enabling Behavior

If we were to explore the meaning of “enabler” or “enabling” from a purely semantic perspective, we can see that it means “to make it possible for someone to do something”. Modern psychology narrows this definition down even further as...

4 Stages Of Enabling Behavior In Relationships: Types of Enablers

Enabling behavior usually begins as a well-intentioned response to a loved one's struggles, whether it's emotional turmoil, addiction, or other personal challenges such as codependency. Hope, alongside guilt, fear, and love, can be a key motivator for enabling behavior. So...

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