Transform Your Relationships at Our Love Addiction Retreat

PIVOT’s Love Addiction Retreat will help you kickstart the healing process and break the cycle of unhealthy relationship patterns. The retreat addresses underlying issues like childhood trauma, low self-esteem, and fear of abandonment, which are often linked to love addiction.

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Our Love Addiction Retreat Will Help You Turn Things Around

Much like substance use disorder or other common addictions, some people develop a pathological condition involving romantic love. While sometimes called love addiction, at PIVOT, we find this behavioral pattern is more aptly termed attachment dysregulation. Join the tens of thousands of clients who have turned their lives and relationships around at our retreats.

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Find a Clear Path to Lasting Change at Our Love Addiction Retreat

PIVOT’s Love Addiction Retreat allows you to step back and analyze the connections in your life and the behaviors that affect those connections. The PIVOT Process gives you a clear path to:

  • Learn about yourself and your attachment styles
  • Release the parts of yourself that are sabotaging relationships
  • Heal emotional wounds and achieve balance
  • Understand what you want/need from relationships
  • Increase self-awareness and confidence
  • Set clear boundaries 
  • Develop healthy coping mechanisms
  • Communicate effectively and honestly with others

Testimonials

I finally felt like I was being seen and heard and understood

After my first session at The Glass House intensive, I felt truly understood. Struggling with relationships—leaving unhealthy ones and knowing my needs—I found clarity through the retreat's curriculum. My PIVOT coach supported me through tough times, providing lifelong tools to transform how I approach relationships. I feel the change within myself and highly recommend this life-changing experience to anyone seeking growth.

‒ Jenn R.

Lasting Changes

It's been a year since I was changing my life at The Glass House. I can honestly say that nothing I've ever done to work on “me” has ever produced so many positive, lasting changes in my life. I still look at my “I am MORE than enough” oil painting each morning, and feel like I'm finally in that sweet spot of life knowing that I've reached my balance point. In my week at The Glass House, I learned humility, confidence, acceptance and letting go in ways that make me a better man

‒ Kevin

Life Changing

People get better at the Glass House. As a therapist, I have sent a number of clients into the care of Lori Jean and her Team at Pivot and they ALL had significant life-changes occur during their stay. And then, when I hit with a very difficult time in my own life, I went as well. My experience was exactly like that of my clients, life-changing.

‒ Cindy F., LCSW, Professor and Clinical Therapist

Wholeheartedly Saved My Life

The PIVOT curriculum and coaches have wholeheartedly saved my life. When I started my coaching sessions, my life was in shambles, and I was starting over.

Because of this curriculum I have been able to successfully live my life as a healthy adult. The tools this program has given me have helped me grow personally, professionally, and spiritually over the past year. The investment I have made in myself through PIVOT is invaluable and the best choice I could have made for myself.

‒ Courtney H.

Without a doubt I found what I was searching for, and much more

At The Glass House retreat, I experienced multiple therapy styles, including a deep dive into the “parts of self” I was unaware of. The 5-day intensive was perfect for me, an “all or nothing” person, and well worth it. Coaches were paired based on my individual needs, fostering bonds with them, housemates, and myself. I found what I was searching for, and much more. I encourage everyone to take the first step and enjoy the journey ahead.

‒ Lawrence Stitley

Far exceeded my expectations

It was my first intensive and far exceeded my expectations. I learned so much about myself and my patterns. I would recommend exploring and learning the PIVOT process to anyone who wants to do the work.

‒ Pam S.

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Break Free from Painful Relationship Patterns

Are you caught in a cycle of obsessive love, feeling anxious, stuck, or drained by relationships that leave you empty? Do you find yourself repeating the same destructive patterns—chasing unavailable partners, fearing abandonment, or losing yourself in love—despite wanting change? You’re not alone, and you don’t have to stay trapped.

Every day spent in unhealthy relationship patterns deepens emotional wounds, but our love addiction retreat offers a path to healing. With an expert-led individual and group therapeutic process, and a supportive environment, you can uncover the roots of your struggles, rebuild self-worth, and create lasting, healthy connections. Don’t wait to reclaim your life—start your transformation today.

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Ready to heal? Reach out at 1-855-452-0707 to begin your journey to healthier, happier relationships.

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About the Founder

Lori Jean, creator of the PIVOT process, is an author, educator, mentor, relationship coach, and public speaker offering solutions for people having relationship challenges. She is passionate and determined to help others. Lori Jean works diligently to repair and restore relationships with self and others – both personally and in the workplace.

She is a trained interventionist and certified relationship, professional, and bereavement coach. She has facilitated trainings to help clinicians see a different perspective when diagnosing and treating process addictions – love addiction, love avoidance, sex addiction and codependency. Lori Jean was also the Executive Director of Clinical Operations for Five Sisters Ranch, until the founder retired.

My personal journey has brought me to this work. I navigated through most of my life with a feeling of unmet longing. Most of the relationships that I was involved in were incredibly challenging for me. I was constantly boarding what I call “Crazy Train” to avoid uncomfortable situations. This left me feeling isolated and alone in the world. On the outside, it appeared that I was living a successful life. On the inside, I was a mess. Had I been taught a healthy relational model, my life would have had a very different flavor! When I finally understood how to approach relationships from a healthy perspective, my life started to change. I felt for the first time ever, relational freedom.

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Frequently Asked Questions

1. What is love addiction?

Love addiction is a behavior characterized by an intense fixation on romantic partners or the idea of being in love. It often stems from unresolved emotional issues, childhood trauma, or attachment dysregulation, leading to obsessive thoughts, dependency, and difficulty maintaining healthy relationships. Recognizing it as a form of emotional addiction is the first step toward healing.

2. What are the signs of love addiction?

Common signs include an overwhelming need to be in a romantic relationship, constant thoughts about a partner, fear of abandonment, sacrificing personal needs for the relationship, and repeating patterns of unhealthy or codependent relationships. If you find yourself feeling anxious when not with your partner or struggling to be alone, these could be indicators of love addiction and can lead to significant emotional distress.

3. Who is a love addiction retreat for?

Our retreat is designed for individuals who are struggling with unhealthy relationship patterns, whether they are single, in a relationship, or dealing with past traumas that affect their ability to form secure attachments. It’s particularly helpful for those who recognize signs of love addiction, such as obsessive behaviors, fear of abandonment, having trouble being alone relationally, or difficulty setting boundaries.

4. What does a love addiction retreat involve?

Our retreat offers a structured program designed to support your healing journey. You’ll take part in a mix of group workshops and one-on-one sessions, where we use a proven approach blending developmental and positive psychology. Expect therapeutic activities to help you explore your attachment styles, identify and heal past emotional wounds, and create healthier relationship habits. Every step is tailored and adapted to your unique story, to guide you toward stronger, more fulfilling connections.

5. Where are you located?

The retreat is held at a serene location in Northern California, offering a peaceful and supportive environment for healing. The setting is designed to foster relaxation and introspection, away from the distractions of daily life.

6. How long does the retreat last?

The retreat schedule starts Monday and ends Friday.

7. What is the cost?

For detailed pricing please contact us directly. We understand that investing in your healing is a significant decision, and we’re here to help you find the best option for your needs.

8. Who facilitates the retreat?

The retreat is led by highly-trained and certified relationship coaches with extensive experience in attachment theory, therapeutic processes, and personal development. These facilitators are trained to guide participants through the healing process with compassion and expertise to help catalyze your behavioral change.

9. What makes this retreat’s approach unique?

PIVOT is a nationally recognized leader in behavioral health transformation. Unlike typical mental health programs, we’re a dedicated change agency, crafting profound, lasting transformation. Our retreat offers specialized help for love addiction. Our retreat attracts like-minded individuals actively seeking answers and help. We tailor our approach to your unique story, ensuring it resonates deeply. You’ll gain practical, easy-to-use tools that require little energy to apply but deliver powerful results when implemented, helping you shift unhealthy patterns to healthy ones and build healthier relationships.

10. How can I register for the retreat?

To register immediately, please complete our Confidential Questionnaire or call us at 1-855-452-0707. Our team will guide you through the next steps, discuss availability, and help you get started on your journey toward healthier relationships.

11. How many clients has the PIVOT process impacted?

We have had the privilege to work with tens of thousands of clients. You can read about some of their experiences here.

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